Shana, it's going to be at least as cold in CT as it is in NYC isn't it? Maybe even colder. January is always the coldest month in NYC. Usually by February temps creep above freezing. In fact, this week it will be in the upper 30's and even 40's (yes, that's warm to me). By March I can retire my puffer permanently and live exclusively in my wool coats. As I said, this doesn't have to happen right away. Sorry, but between CT and NYC...I think NYC wins I can think of a million things to do and places to go! Next time you are in NJ let me know and I'll see if we can make it to Short Hills.
I live in the suburbs too and I have found that being in the suburbs actually feels colder, even at the same temperatures. When I start my commute in NJ, using a car and a train, it feels cold because I am stationary. Once I get moving in NY, I warm up quite a bit. I also tend to walk extremely fast though. If I'm walking with other people, I usually have to slow down my pace.
I hope you are able to join us Debora! You should bring DD with you!