You're doing well dianthus!
Woo hoo for getting back on track, even though I know it's *tough*. I just wanted to say though, that you might want to consider blaming the food, and not the person (ie. you) or behaviour. Just as we try to remind ourselves here at YLF that it's not a person's body/shape, but rather the clothes that aren't the right fit - I think the same is true with food as well.
Food for thought: maybe it isn't that you're an emotional or so-called "binge eater", but perhaps certain types of food are extremely addictive. In fact, I remember reading an article in the New York Times magazine recently about the process of making manufactured food/snacks as addictive as possible. Let me go look it up....
Here it is:
"The Extraordinary Science of Addictive Junk Food" (warning: long, but still a fascinating read)
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/02.....ewanted=alIn the meantime, love the soup idea. It's an excellent strategy to have something "go to" like this on hand.
Just as an aside, here are a few other strategies that have worked for me over the longer haul:
#1 -
Don't test my own willpower too much - if I'm going to a party or a fancy restaurant, I eat something 'small-ish' before I leave, so I'm not ravenous or tempted by too many things. A handy-dandy small snack has been few bites of olive-oil packed tuna. I might add green onions to it, or dill relish or a bit of mustard. Doesn't need mayo because of the olive oil, and it's 'moist' enough to not need any mayo anyway. Love this stuff - particularly tasty in a green salad at lunch too with some kalamata olives, tomatoes, green onions, grape tomatoes etc.
http://www.starkist.com/produc.....-olive-oilQuick alternative is a small portion of nuts (ie. macadamia nuts) or perhaps a couple of tablespoons of almond butter. Even a hard-boiled egg or something, if I've been organized enough to have some in the fridge.
#2 -
It's not reasonable to expect that you'll never eat dessert or cake again - I just don't have it in the house, unless I'm having company - and further, a little tip is to "use it up" . You can get past the cravings that such an item triggers faster by burning it off - that's what the carbs are for! Someone that has toast or a bagel for breakfast and then walks to work, or walks to a transit stop may not find these foods as 'addicting' - because the fuel is being used up/burned off before anything goes too haywire. Something to keep in mind when it's your birthday or some other celebration - you *can* have a slice of cake or dessert, but you might want to go on a power walk later that evening or first thing the next morning. Doing so will shorten up the after-effects of feeling sluggish and/or cravings. Note: if you suspect that gluten makes you feel ill, I'd recommend g/f stuff on these (hopefully) rare occasions. The other night I had a slice of gluten-free, flourless, hazelnut chocolate torte during our anniversary dinner out at a nice restaurant. Went nuts on housework next day, and there are no dire cravings hanging around.
#3 -
don't go out shopping (of any kind - groceries, clothes, hardware store) without eating something first, no matter what - I know it seems ridiculous, but I have noticed that I spend more and make more shopping mistakes if I'm hungry! Weird eh? Plus, there's the "temptation" factor if shopping for a few hours - easy to get sucked into a restaurant or the food court. I remember meeting up with my Mom and one of her friends for a vacation in Palm Springs. The three of us women were all excited about going to a local outlet mall...they had coffee and were raring to go. I insisted that I needed something to eat before leaving the house. There was some leftover cold chicken salad in the fridge, so I had a scoop of that, plus half an apple sliced up. After three or four hours of "power shopping" - we ended up at a fast-food/diner type place. Mom and friend ordered breaded zucchini, burgers, fries etc. I wasn't 'starving', so was able to just get myself a nice salad with some shrimp on it. Interesting tidbit - they were tired after lunch, and I was ready to keep shopping
Ok - enough of the novel....clearly, the topic is one I'm passionate about.
Good luck everyone - the sugar addiction can be resolved or at least minimized, I promise!
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