SF - you have no idea how right you are.
CG - I didn't get my sister until I was 8, and, sandwiched between two brothers, I desperately wanted a sister. But naturally, what I *most* wanted was the impossible: an OLDER sister. So an obliging, sympatico cousin filled that role and I got a much younger sister who has grown into the sister role admirably.
Debora - I love that you're posting! I too have wandered in and out over the years and while there's a lot of great new energy, voices, and faces here right now, it's always a thrill to see the veterans you've actually met.