this was harder than i thought, but my first thoughts were sophisticated and laidback. then intelligent, smart, smaller tummy and taller

...and fun and surprising. I guess the hardest one is the combo sophisticated + laidback. I'm not sure I'm spot on with that

Fresh, confident, happy, a little stylish, and ready to do whatever is at hand. That last one is actually the bigger challenge for me because living in the country means you never know what's coming - you might be at a business meeting one minute and wind up going over to meet their new horse or something the next. In the city I felt that I knew what to expect. Then again you're not exactly being judged for your fashion out here unless you are wearing heels and then people may definitely smirk.

Hmmm...never going to get away from 'fat' and 'middle aged' Im 51. But I would love to have people think 'well-groomed' 'stylish'-not trendy (nothing wrong with that, its just 'not me') 'fun' and 'quietly friendly'- I smile a lot, but am not very talkative....