The cold-shoulder top is a perfect example : I bought one a year or so ago , not really registering whether it was some new trend or not, just thought it looked kind of cool. Figuratively speaking. I wore it twice, and then it disappeared into the laundry never to be worn again . Over the past year or so, it was a hot topic of conversation here on the forum, but I thought " oh who cares - they are everywhere ,I don't want any part of it". Then a few weeks ago, I was having a drink in my favourite neighbourhood restaurant and bar, and noticed a woman on a first date (that's the story I made up about her) wearing a cold shoulder blouse , jeans, and heels. It was so pretty, and she looked fresh and different. When I got home I pulled mine out of the closet , ironed it, and promptly wore it the next day. I liked it! It may be in every g*d**n store, but it's not on anyone I know or hang out with, and it feels, well, fresh and pretty. I'm not about to buy another one, but it reminded me to form my own opinion outside of what I'm seeing in stores, and to trust my initial instinct , which was to like it. Same happened with the bomber and the released hem jeans.