Hello savvy YLF members, new member here. I've been lurking and looking for advice for a while, and I think my body shape is a "pear", but I'm not sure. I'd like some input through neutral eyes

I feel so awkward in most things after gaining weight and getting really bumpy hips. What sort of silhouettes do you think would suit me? I've got real trouble finding pants/jeans that fit. Tight skirts and dresses are unflattering and full ones seem to make me look bigger and shorter? Perhaps I'm wearing them wrong.
Help!