Suz, oh thank you so much! I shall keep on keeping on, especially knowing you all are here to cheer me on and up! <3 You said it so well with aspirational vs fantasy life. When I had a career it felt easier because I could wear some fantasy dressing to work or even out with friends and my husband. And now.. that just doesn’t quite work. It’s not practical. But being practical and casual has never been my strong suit either. I like artsy and glam — and those aren’t exactly practical and casual ha! Thanks for listening to me ramble.
Jaime, you are so lovely. Thank you <3 “We were our faces every day after all.” So beautifully said! You are so precious, my Fab friend. <3 I hope 2026 is easier and lighter for you too.
Lise, I was so tickled how he kept insisting I buy the dress. I was having a down day (keeping it to myself) and he was like no — Mom you need this dress. Thank you for your kind wishes <3 I will definitely be remixing some things. I also used an AI service to look over a couple of boards and just name and list all the various elements, accessories, etc. Kind of cheating maybe and not perfect. But it helped me see some common themes, elements, etc. and it was very helpful just as something to let stew in the teapot of my mind while I shop.
Dee, thank you <3 Yes, to ditching the clothes! I honestly felt so much better emotionally just letting them go. Thank you for your kind compliments about my knitting! I will keep building and will share the journey here as ever.
Helena, I think the next step of overlap with daily practicalities feels hard when I think about it. But I’m hoping as I flow and continue on in the journey, it will all come together. Thanks for such kind wishes. Truly. Xo <3
Cookie, haha! Thanks for a good laugh!
Sal, thank you <3 And such a wise reminder! I think I haven’t really found a uniform yet? I love your idea to wear jeans, cardigans, tees, and sneakers. I do think jeans or pants with a top and topper is probably a really good uniform for me to try out more. And dresses. Skirts always feel hit or miss for me, somehow. Not sure why. I have 3 bias cut midi skirts in my drawers and I have hardly worn them even though I like the idea of them.
Carla, I am thankful to be through it, for sure! You made me tear up. I have always felt I was *not* the person who could wear a wash rag (or flour sack) and look good. So thank you so, so much for a lovely compliment. And yes— I plan on continuing cozy, romantic, and boho this year I feel very good about that direction.
Angie, oh thank you! I totally love and accept that lovely wish for 2026, as well as the compliments Jeans do work! Flared Jeans… I bought 3 back-up pairs ha! I do love them. I am still working on the rock’n roll part, but something about that vibe delights me. And yes! Boho will always keep on stayin’ alive. It is my heart and style home for sure I will keep following the NO’s and the YES’s! I remember you sharing that with me a couple times in 2025, and it really stuck with me. I'm really not disappointed with my style no's in 2025. There is so much out there in the fashion world. Hopefully the next right steps will find me. And a good graphic rocker tee