At the beginning of the year, I set the unrealistic goal of 12 purchases and ended up with 67 for the year. I have worn 65 of the 67, and have already passed on the other two. I think my acquisitions were sort of reasonable given that I am nearing the end of my second year in a 4-season climate. Come April, I won't be able to use climate adjustment as an excuse anymore
Still, blowing a shopping challenge doesn't make the whole year a total loss - I put the majority of my core wardrobe into finds to get a better sense of what I have, what I buy, and what I edit out; I started tracking
daily outfits in September, and I have drafted a list of essentials for
2020.
daily outfits in September, and I have drafted a list of essentials for
2020.
I have learned some valuable things about my style as well:
- I greatly prefer texture to pattern; I am down to only four patterned items (other than scarves) in my active wardrobe.
- I don't need to settle for whatever the stores have in stock; it's not like I am running around naked.
- I feel most like myself in jeans and a pullover. I don't need dresses or skirts to feel fab.
- I like contrast in an outfit - but only wear it in the summer; winter looks have been quite monochromatic (Why? Must overthink this next summer...)
- I don't need to wear loungewear that makes me look as frumpy as I feel.
- I have finally accepted the fact I will never return to the workforce as I once knew it. My lifestyle simply doesn't allow for me to have a large collection of precious pieces. I won't be instagram-perfect - and that's OK. I have mourned; I am ready to move on.
For 2020:
My Style Moniker needs some tweaking. "Refined Californian" was fine,
until I woke up in 12 degree weather with 4 inches of snow on the
ground. I'm toying with "Approachable Bi-coastal": It reminds me to
focus on the OTG/practical part of my lifestyle, and also to SMILE. I
suspect my shadow persona lives in sequins and feathers at a Vegas
residency show, but that costume won't cut it if I'm wrangling programmers from my desk, shoveling Legos, or shuttling kids to ball practice in crap weather...
until I woke up in 12 degree weather with 4 inches of snow on the
ground. I'm toying with "Approachable Bi-coastal": It reminds me to
focus on the OTG/practical part of my lifestyle, and also to SMILE. I
suspect my shadow persona lives in sequins and feathers at a Vegas
residency show, but that costume won't cut it if I'm wrangling programmers from my desk, shoveling Legos, or shuttling kids to ball practice in crap weather...
I haven't set any purchase or wardrobe goals yet, other than starting a
"do not buy" list (no skirts or dresses, no matter how swishy or
sparkly). My wardrobe is in great shape, and I feel like I could pull
together an appropriate outfit for almost any occasion.
"do not buy" list (no skirts or dresses, no matter how swishy or
sparkly). My wardrobe is in great shape, and I feel like I could pull
together an appropriate outfit for almost any occasion.
I am in the "relax" camp with others for the new year. 2020 is shaping
up to be crazy and uncertain in other areas of life and I need to chill, and find peace and pleasure where I can; I will start with my closet!
up to be crazy and uncertain in other areas of life and I need to chill, and find peace and pleasure where I can; I will start with my closet!
Happy Holidays, fellow fabbers! Thank you for being with me on this journey of discovery for the past year!