Jenava, XOXOX. I think you are right about the skinny/stovepipes. Angie said the same thing. I guess I'm a slow learner!
Kappy, I just wanted to cry when I read that you have been laughed at because of your size! That's horrible! I wish I could go shopping with you; I'd take care of those idiots! Thank you for understanding. But I'm sorry you had to experience that. As for shoes in general I think the answer for me is to find a regular shoe that happens to be comfortable, instead of wearing a *comfort shoe*. That way my *old* hair won't be bookended by an *old* shoe, until I have to, of course. I am amazed at how the women on YLF (young or just young looking) can make a comfort shoe look so stylish. And how some of the older gals even make them look edgy-cool. Alas, I am not one of them. I tend to shy away from a masculine shoe too. I don't know why, buy they don't fly on me. That's funny that you had a pair of the same shoes. And here I thought all heels were less frumpy than all flats. Perhaps not. If I'm going to be in pain to wear a heel, it had better be super-fab!
Shevia, you are such a sweetheat (and on Valentine's Day, no less!) I can't believe the lady at the cosmetics counter! The last time I went there (a good 10+ years ago) I was offered a wrinkle cream. I never went back! That's a touchy subject and they all should take sensitivity training, lol! I think you are right about the skirt. It is not 100% fab. It is not curve hugging and it's a bit long. Thanks for saying what I was wondering out loud.
Deborah, we are age twins! Thank you for your comments on the hair and shoes. How smart to ask what someone means when they say something like that! I usually take it at face value and only start to second-guess it later. I'm going to remember to do that. How simple, just to clear things up from the outset. You are one wise woman. I really will get to work on some fab pants. I really want to get away from black though. Navy, grey or some kind of beige/tan/taupe would be better with my other tops, but you know how everything is available in black, and sometimes not much else. Lucky for you! To answer your question, I LOVE the volunteering and I think I'm fitting in really well there. You guys only hear the bad parts because I don't want to whine about the dress code at work. Today I dressed the cutest young woman who wore a size 00! It was like choosing clothes for a Barbie doll! We had such a fun time together and she left with the most amazing outfit, shoes, bag and accessories. She will knock 'em dead at her interview I'm sure. You'll have to tell us what you're thinking about doing. I know you already work in community service, will this be an offshoot of that? Do tell. I think you'd be great and you have SO much to offer!
Sarah, thanks! Yes #4 are Fidjis. Ok comfy, but not amazing because ot the slight heel.
Lisa, somehow I can't imagine you with all of those hair colors! You're right about the softer colors with the grey. Very nice! And thanks for saying that about my *style*. You've been a big help. (Still don't have those primo denims though. They will have to wait.)
Shannon, hi there! I was thinking about you and wishing I could wear your Docs Saras with this outfit today (in theory, anyway)! It seems like I was missing an element that would say, "In case you're wondering, I have FAB style. Just look at my killer _______!" and I didn't have anything to fill in the blank with, lol! The Saras would have done that. I love your hair too and we see eye to eye on that issue! Thanks for the nice things you said about my ability to wear skinny pants. I guess we all just need to find the thing we can rock and rock it! I wonder what my element of modern/edge/funk will be. Clearly it's not going to be shoes.....
Bj1111. Got it. Gotta get the pants! Thanks!