What an interesting read!
I hope you don't mind me digging up this thread again, but I was thinking about RATE vs. disheveled; RATE as it relates to rocker chick chic; how RATE/ Polished might fall on the Perceiver/ Judger scale on the MBTI... I still don't really get it.
I can't help but feel that RATE ~ which I consider myself to be ~ is inferior to Polished. (My late parents were naturally very polished people and I can still hear them sigh over my RATE self. LOL) Sloppy, ill-fitting, weird, unkempt are some words that spring to mind and I want to "reframe" RATE in my mind as something equally positive to polished. Of course, most style icons are polished, so finding some more who are RATE would be a nice start. Many French women seem to be able to strike an exemplary balance between RATE and Polished: eg. like Emmanuelle Alt, Jeanne Damas has polished clothes but often has RATE hair... I think?
I am definitely RATE but do not have an ounce of rocker chick in me. I think of my RATE more as E described it. I prefer to decorate my house with older leather chairs that show their age, worn velvet sofas, threadbare vintage rugs, sterling silver with a light patina : beautiful materials and high quality, but a bit cozy and forgiving. I wonder how this translates into personal clothing/ fashion style?
How do the rest of you RATE women manage to feel just as chic as your polished sisters, when stylish people tend to revere and promote the polished aesthetic? Is RATE really just a kind way to say, messy?
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