Coco, if jeans are most appropriate for your lifestyle (as it is with mine) I would say non-denim should count. At first all I HAD was jeans, and wanted to break out of it, so I picked up leggings to wear with a handful of dresses/skirts. Later on I added a couple pairs of corduroy bootcuts (dark brown, wine, honey), slim/skinny denim in non-blue washes (gray, black), and a pair of olive twill skinnies. All just as casual as my jeans, but the variety of color, material, and cut keeps things interesting while still appropriate for my lifestyle. However, I still wear my blue jeans the most (and only have a couple pairs) because I love jeans, but at least now I don't feel confined to them. So this time around, I'm trying to actually wear a skirt/dress once a week since now that is a bigger challenge for me.
For your other question, I meant that I couldn't come up with a good outfit without spending 30+ minutes thinking about it, trying things on, changing pieces out, testing accessories etc. These days I usually spend just a few minutes coming up with the outfit, but I'm still pretty slow to get ready (about an hour from shower to fully done up, most of that time is non-dressing time). To be fair, I DO mainly wear jeans+tee/sweater+heels but I try to ensure those items are stylish and flattering so that it doesn't look shlumpy (and adding jackets/cardigans helps too, as do various accessories).