First on my mind -- I want to thank those of you who said you trust my judgement and style instincts to figure out this age + fashion equation! I'm going to call you out: RoseandJoan, Diane G, Vix, Suz, Angie, Isis, Alicat, Alaskagirl, Rae, Mo, Firecracker (cool backpack!) and that's just the first page, I haven't fully digested the second page of comments yet. I will comment on those next.
So, for page 1:
I like the way Peri put it -- that it used to just be, do I like it, and does it look good on me. Now it's also: am I allowed to wear this? How will I be seen, how will I be judged? Will I be seen as too keen to follow a trend, not strong enough for someone my age (as Vildy so eloquently put it)? At heart, this is a fairly loaded topic that gets into all sorts of questions about age. I couldn't agree with Bette Davis more: aging is not for sissies.
I also wanted to thank those of you who pointed out that some of my areas of doubt may be a style evolution. (Diane G, LynD, Janet, Rae). Something to think about.
Suze an Deborah, thanks for the solutions to my question marks -- I guess I don't have to give up on graphic or logo or attitude tees just yet. Or camo.
Jenanded -- thanks for the nice comment, so appreciated. I will now be on the hunt for a camo scarf!
Sarah -- the cute fashion sweatshirt question is this. I love those Wildfox Couture big sloppy sweaters and sweatshirts with big bows or stars on them. That's what I think I'm too old for. (So Rae there are some cute things I like, if they are RATE enough.)
Vix -- couldn't agree more about fast fashion, it is dangerous ground for me.
Tex -- Your story was hilarious. I used to see women like that when I lived in LA, I figured they were looking for attention.
Gaylene and Vildy -- your comments make me think I am on the right track in being more trend restrictive. Thanks for the honesty.
Jamie -- I think your outfit sounds fabulous! And you are young, you need to remind your friend that she is too.
Laura -- you bring up an interesting question. Some things I feel ready to let go of. Other things I feel I must. A skinny jean, yes it's part of my signature style. But when it's white or light, I feel like every curve of my backside or thigh is visible, and I fear it is immodest for someone my age. (So those cream skinnies are probably going back.)
Shevia and Firecracker -- I wore really short skirts up until age 50. I am short, short skirts look good on me. I just gave them up prior to YLF. I would still wear them at a beach resort though. As Angie said, context matters.
Now off to digest page 2...