Dressed for Dress for Success

Worn with the Brahmin and Report Marks booties in sand color - not even I go barefoot in Hollywood.

I had not been to DFS to volunteer since the robbery at my previous workplace. I usually park in a different area and take the subway, but the thought of being in that enclosed space underground created too much anxiety. Finally forced myself to go even though I am paying for close parking to start off with. I'm very glad I went back! I worked there both Tuesday and today and had a lot of fun with the clients.

Jessica Howard shrug - Macy's
Pleione shell - Nordies (gratis)
Cat pendant - Madewell
Hugo Boss trousers (rolled up to capri length) - flea market
Brahmin satchel - Nordstrom
Report Marks booties - Amazon

PS: Please excuse the large donating bags in the background.

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10 years ago

Marley

Veteran

Good idea Rae to pay for closer parking. Glad you are being gentle with yourself!
OK - so where are your boots and your handbag in this pic???? I really like the pants rolled up - did they stay, or did you have trouble keeping them up and in place?

deb

I think it is a good idea to do what feel safe until you get more comfortable. It is a slow process but give yourself a pat on the back for going. It is a big step.

Joy

Big hugs, Rae. This can't be easy but I'm sure we are all extra proud of you for taking this big big step. The women at Dressed For Success were blessed to have your skills and assistance. You look able to move comfortably yet so stylish and cool.

Lantana

DFS is so lucky to have you Rae.
Sending you supportive vibes.

Deborah

So glad to hear you are feeling up to getting back to this) Your outfit looks quite fab.

Beth Ann

Love you simple color scheme with the fab details -- rolled pants, cat pendant. And I'm glad you're finding ways to participate in the activities that matter to you without too much distress.

lyn*

(website)

Aww, you look so comfy and approachable, Rae. I hope it was a productive day

PS: Good job on the closet cull!

CocoLion

Glad you had fun. Fortunately I am familiar with the Report Marks booties you have in a tan-cognac color, as well as the stripey Brahmin bag. So I am using my powers to see the whole outfit.

ManidipaM

I know those booties and that bag, so I am sure the ladies at DFS had fun getting to know the stylish, practical, generous woman that you are. Congratulatory hugs on those first tentative but brave steps. So glad for you, even though they are the ones lucky to have you.

Aside: Does DFS ever have male clients? Or is it intended as a women's empowerment enterprise?

RoseandJoan

I want to give you a hug Rae, I'm feeling very proud of you.

I love those trousers

Anonymous

Fab outfit! I like the slouchy trousers very much. I'm glad you found the inner strength to go and do your bit. Well done

Kim

Love the outfit Rae, and glad you are doing something about overcoming any anxiety you have in regards to the robbery.

I might be overstepping a little here, (but I'm a Mom and you're young enough to be my kid so...) there's a good post in Off Topic about websites that help to find strategies to overcome anxieties (of all kinds.). You may want to have a look and see if there's anything useful for you there. Many tools make the work easier (well, easy might not be the right word, but you know what I mean...right? LOL)

http://youlookfab.com/welookfa.....ng-anxiety

rae

Marley, DH was giving me the hairy eyeball for trying to wear my booties in the House, lol. Usually it's fine but whatever. The pants amazingly stayed rolled... Moreover, I wore the same outfit today with my Timberland booties, and they are still going strong.

Mani, it is geared toward helping women. They even had to think long and hard on whether to accept male applicants for paid positions since some of our clients may come from abusive backgrounds. It is supposed to be a 100% comfortable space for them.

Kim, thank you for the link; I will check it out for sure!

And thank you everyone else for your support. It feels good to be back.

Suz

Oh, Rae - I am so glad you went back. I know it must have been hard -- but it's also so worthwhile. Glad it worked out.

Love the outfit!

Jaime

Love your outfit! Glad you are up to going back.

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