Oh my goodness, she looks so grown up. I got a bit teary-eyed reading about her running and jumping and rolling, and then seeing her mid-air. I could hardly believe that she is 4 already; then I saw her photos. The joy is so strong in her, and you are doing such a good job raising her. Congrats to you both.

Your photos are so joyful and fun. Zi’Joy is adorable and a sweet 4 year old. You are a fabulous mama who has had a tough year. Take some time for yourself. How is your new home working out?

Happy Birthday Zi’Joy! She is growing up so quickly, it is wonderful to see her all recovered and energetic. Many blessings to her and to you.

So wonderful to see her running and jumping, after her health challenges! She’s so lucky to have you as her mom.

Happy belated 4th birthday to Zi’Joy! Kudos on the action photos; love to see kids so enthusiastic and can’t get over how much she has grown!

Just amazing! 4 years have flown by ( for me!). My oldest grandchild is 4– it’s exhausting but rejuvenating!
Your unwavering love, devotion and care and fierce tiger- mothering through her illness and months of therapy is on joyful display here.
You have given her life twice now...

Barbara Diane

anytime I get frustrated or overwhelmed as a parent or at work or just anywhere I will stop and remember the journey and it will center me. I wish I could share video but there is one I recorded After zi go out of the hospital and was in therapy for a while before covid it was a kids event and she sang and ran her little heart out. I sang with her because no one knows your journey or the reason behind that Let it go song from frozen It is such a humbling experience to witness and share in her journey.


Joy I just LOVE our new home it is such a God filled blessing and this year has been really healthy for us and I'm thankful thank you for asking

Unfrumped that is exactly what a midlife baby is like exhausting and rejuvenating. Many over 40 midlife mamas I have spoken with over the years say the same. It is the wellspring of love that I did not know I had that I operate from. Like nike says we just do it. As I look back I think parents are awesome but Mamas Are the REAL MVP Warriors

I appologize for not answere everyone but I've read all of the comments and thank you for allowing space for my Zion'Joy to growup a YLF baby.

I can't believe Zi'Joy is four already! Thank you for posting the pics; how wonderful to see her run and jump! I was an over 40 mama, and my baby is living in CHI. In winter, she likes to go to the arboretum.

At some point (in the next few years?) I hope to make a trip to CHI; maybe we can meet at a Zi'Joy friendly place?

Ledonna, these pictures are beyond gorgeous and even more amazing after all that you and Zi'Joy went through in 2020. Happy birthday Zi'Joy and Happy Mother's Day to you.