Actually, this cardigan is so YOU to my eye.

I have been thinking about this thread for a few days now, you really planted quite a puzzle in my head. I think because I'm going through some style definition/purification/whatever stage, I cannot fully focus on what's not me in terms of still wanting to wear it IYKWIM, althugh there are definitely such things - but I need to work out whether they are "not me, ditch them" or "not me, that actually still highlight me". A lot to ponder and in fact very helpful, thanks