OK, my reaction to this story was a bit weird. My original thought was "well, why wouldn't she be interested in putting together a kimono outfit--sounds like a perfect option for a birthday party". Maybe the fact that Angie's client is only a dozen years older than me has something to do with my response?
As for this notion of "giving up", I get slightly irritated at seeing it so often linked with aging. Yes, older women "give up", often because of health or other issues, but I'm aghast at the scores of younger women who also merit the label. Pajamas at school functions, sloppy shirts and yoga pants at the mall, flip flops at the opera--for every older woman who is wearing pastel, elastic-waisted pants with a coordinating top and sensible shoes, I'll give you a thirty-something with dirty feet in flip flops; leggings; sloppy T-shirt; unwashed, bed-head hair; and runny make-up. Makes the oldsters look positively polished in comparison.