Comments - Part 3
Gradfashionista: I very much like your technique for maintaining a well edited wardrobe. I so want to be like that... but not sure if I am built for it. Boy do I admire it though.
Laurinda: I think that you distilled my epiphany perfectly - I had to ask myself why I was holding onto things that I didn't love and wouldn't keep if I could afford better. Why have them at all? Why do I have "just in case" items? Just in case of what? But I still kept some... just in case the other 100 items in my closet are all dirty at the same time and I have to go naked? Sheesh.
Angie: watch out... if all the YLF ladies split a lottery ticket and win, you will be swarmed and never have another moment to yourself again! But in all seriousness, we would all come to you because you have such a way of helping people look stylish, not like everyone else, but like their own best self. That is the sort of stylish that we all want to be. It is such a gift that you have! You know, I did think about traveling, but I totally forgot about traveling to shopping destinations. May I edit my scenario of flying to Seattle to meet you, and instead meet up in Hong Kong to shop?
Lisap: I'm glad you enjoyed this. I was actually thinking about it when I responded to your other thread, but figured that this concept needed a thread all by itself. I completely identify with your yearning for wanting the right things. I am constantly fighting myself for wanting more, and yet wanting simpler. Ultimately, I am with you. I really want that "small, tight, and tidy"... ahhhhhhh.
Lisa: I am so with you on upgrading the quality. There is something wonderful about knowing that something is well made with excellent materials. It has taken me way too long to realize that.
Elle: I would definitely want to invest in my home and travel as well. Your statement about having the right bag and footwear for every outfit and right outfit for every occasion hit a bit hot button for me. It never ceases to amaze me how I can constantly find an occasion that needs an outfit that is unique and not something I've planned for. And I don't lead a very exciting life! But things come up - sometimes weird and unusual things. Having the freedom of wardrobe appropriateness would be priceless to me!
Aziraphale: lol - nothing admirable about Imelda Marcos! Love it. And good point. And oh yes to the leather moto!!
AviaMariah: I would have given anything to have Angie plan my MOTG outfits when I was a SAHM. I would have ended up constantly lunching with girlfriends so that I could wear my fabulous outfits around town.
Rachylou: ridiculously expensive indeed. I wonder how long it would take me to get used to paying prices for things that my former self would have fainted over? Probably not long. And hey, if you don't want to go far for the fancy duds, just call me. Angie and I will send you some things from our shopping sprees in Paris and Hong Kong. You won't even have to leave home.
DonnaF: I agree - I think I would be embarrassed if the finery was too overt. But that is such a good point about splurging on those items that are possibly great needs, such as glasses or superbly comfy shoes and getting something that is not only beautiful and well made but makes life easier, more comfortable and healthier. I love it!
Shedev: what a great example of the kind of overhaul I'm talking about, without the windfall. That is exactly what I was hoping to inspire in my own life. I love the lessons that you learned. I also love your selfless attitude with your (hypothetical) winnings. There is nothing better than helping the ones we love, and I would hope to do the same. Although if I happened by an All Saints, I'm quite sure I'd have more than a look.
Shiny: Everything you said. EVERYTHING. (Except the financial planning. I'm not so good at that.) But I do love the idea of a big closet, and I also love my tiny house. It's such a conundrum.
Alaskagirl: for me, your quote was the best of this exercise: "the fun is really in the struggle." This is truly the way of life, I think. I find that the best moments of creativity come from the strongest (and sometimes most unusual) boundaries. When I end up being put in a box, the answer is usually to turn the box upside down, paint all over it, and sit on top of it. That's how amazing things happen. (And yet, the appeal of the perfect, simple uniform is so very great... Arghhhhhh)
Torontogirl: I love your precise and focused way of cutting right to the heart of what you would want and would work for you and your style. I can tell you know yourself well and are comfortable in your own skin. That is just wonderful!
Amiable: You are a kindred spirit...
Firecracker: Everything you said resonated with me... And I got to your last line, which is EXACTLY where my thought process ended! Amazing how that just hits like a thunderbolt. Those odds and ends are just... Fillers. Love it!
Neel: oh goodness, you cracked me up! Shopping on pain of death? Yes please!! And you totally summed up something I couldn't figure out how to say, and yet was so simple. It's truly not that I don't love many things that I have (other than the filler junk) but new is just SO FUN. I like fun and pretty so very much.
This is so odd how taking a flight of fancy to a make believe lavish universe has left me feeling more content, thankful and peaceful than ever. There is only one explanation. You ladies are magic.