Your outfit is lovely, and I think it's such a wonderful idea to wear such a deliberately chosen ensemble. Although you've let us in on the meaning of each piece, it's also like a secret you have with Iris---knowing that the TEAL is actually Iris's favorite color. A mother knows things no one else knows. You gave Iris a beautiful name, and I'm so very sorry for your loss, and what the world has lost as well. Much love to you. I still wear my dad's watch, and when I touch the face of the watch which he touched so many times in his life, I feel like we are still connected across these realms where our physical bodies are separated. I hope you have a little something of hers to carry as well.