Thank you to all who commented. You helped me to feel that I wasn't too off base with this outfit.
Alicat, you are so kind. We had a great time catching up with DS's life.
Kellygirl, thank you for the confidence boost.
Nancylee and Nicole, I ended up switching the blue denim jeans for black jeans and animal loafers for silver metallic flats. Still D on D but a tad dressier. The posted outfit would definitely have worked. I was too rushed to get a photo but it didn't look very different from what you see.
Runcarla, you are right. this was very comfortable.
Ornella, you are so wise. I know what you mean by the fine line.
Caro, thank you.
Donna, we did end up having KC barbecue...babyback ribs, creamy coleslaw, baked beans, onion rings and the guys had beer. DH had his ID checked which made his day.
Debora, I changed the jeans but kept the turquoise pile.
Karie, a snake belt seems to go with so much, I have a bit lighter version by MK that is a bit too short for these jeans.
Susie, Shannon and Sarah! Thank you. Sarah, DS had on a tee shirt.
Firecracker, you are so right! I'm old enough to remember when we couldn't wear any kind of pants, let alone jeans. And that included college!
Sveta, it is curious that this BR shirt is soft. It may be older. I happened onto it soon after Angie posted about buying one, but this one was on a sale rack marked down significantly.