Thanks so much for the kind words Pil, Barbara Diane, Adriana, and Janet!
karen13 nodding along with you. You give such excellent advice, I hope you are taking it yourself
Anchie, sounds like you have been through it too, for 9 months, it must have seemed endless.
Bijou, thanks, a holiday certainly would have been much more fun!
Sisi thanks, and Simon is a funny guy, he's very sweet and affectionate SOME of the time but at other times not so much. Like most cats he has his routines/patterns.