This is way too many lemons, but I have to say - you make the *best* lemonade!
Sorry to hear you're dealing with so much all at once like this, but it really does sound like you've totally taken the "bull by the horns" so to speak, and gotten a few things in place to help improve the situation a wee bit.
Despite the negative goings-on, I am curious about the 'sexy car' bit ...sorry, that just brought a big smile to my face and I'm glad there is something fun and nice going on in the midst of all the drama.
Meanwhile, I am thinking that the 'sexy car' might go very well with your future dreams of living in the city.
Hang in there Shannon, and as others have already said - you epitomize "grace under fire" in a way that is very inspiring.