I wish I remembered how exactly I found the site. I think I googled "skinny black jeans" (the first pair I owned) and was relieved to find Angie said they were not only ok, but stylish!
I was in my mid 30s and felt so clueless. I used to watch What Not to Wear and makeover shows all the time but it never translated into my own style. I didn't shop, almost at all, and most of my clothes were cheap and worn out. I would pick up on trends years after they were probably out of style.
I have a co-worker who's so stylish and fashionable. One day we were at a conference out of town and we ducked in a clothing store. She was really encouraging and it made me realize I didn't have to envy her, I had the right to be stylish too. So I set out to "learn" how to dress, checking out library books, reading magazines, searching around the internet. I started trying out a few new styles and I think that's how I ended up here.
YLF has been the single biggest influence in teaching me how to dress better. I can't thank Angie and the forum members enough! I think the biggest change is learning I can trust my own instincts. It's good to keep an open mind but it's also ok to trust what you like and what you don't. We each have our own unique taste and that's a good thing.