Such an interesting thread! Sorry I missed it. So many comments in it are from people I don’t see in the forum now. Is that because of turn-over or did this topic bring them out?
I’ve used up my YLF time for now, so will come back to this later, but first a quick story of my one experience with power suiting:
I wasn’t required to take classes after my diss research, but I did sit in on a couple interesting seminars. While I’d been gone, the dept had admitted many more women than previously. One evening, two of them were discussing (during seminar break) their interview, conference, and maybe teaching attire. It made me nervous, because I had never thought about that before, so I told them I knew nothing about power suits. “Oh yes you do” one of them said. No, really, I didn’t. They pointed to what I was wearing and insisted it was the ultimate power play, because I was clearly insisting to be engaged with intellectually. I was wearing cutoff shorts with some paint on them from when I did my living room a couple years earlier and probably a T-shirt. Most of the men in the room were dressed similarly; although probably didn’t have paint on their pants/shorts.
I’ve thought of that conversation over the years whenever the topic of “power suits” comes up. Now, as I plan to reenter the workforce, I am carefully considering my wardrobe and self-presentation for the first time ever. As she pointed out, I am not doing this because I have such power, but because I am afraid I will be seen as lacking, because of my age.