More wonderful comments! Thanks, Amy. There is certainly a juxtaposition going on here. Maybe that's one of the reasons I like it.
Suz, that's so interesting about the "towering over" thing. Since I am so tall, I don't think I have ever experienced the feeling of a woman towering over me. It would never occur to me to feel intimidated by her....I wonder how much of that has to do with my size? I agree with you about the sweetness or innocence of her face.
Anna, thanks for your take! It is certainly a bold look--I agree about her "blending in" more in large urban settings, for sure. I would love to see your approximation!
Chrizzle, thanks for your detailed comments! I love hearing about how you still feel like the same daring person (style-wise) that you used to be, though now you are somewhat more conventional. I feel similarly! I appreciate your last paragraph especially. We certainly do telegraph our alliances or our group(s) with how we look, even if we don't consciously set out to do it. People--whether they are potential mates, friends, just passersby--will evaluate us and put us into categories almost automatically, you know?
Thanks for chiming back in, Shevia! Sounds like you think she is somewhat paradoxical? It's interesting...In thinking about it, I guess I oftentimes link effort with punk or counter-culture looks. If you think about all of the effort required to develop and maintain a perfect Mohawk, for example :), or the time and effort spent thrifting and modifying one's clothes to be exactly how one wants them, there is a lot of care and energy that goes into that self-presentation. It can be very dramatic and in your face, which requires some time and effort to achieve. To me, it doesn't negate the style at all. Okay, I'm rambling....
Thank you, Astrid. Yes, your comment makes perfect sense to me!
Thanks Rute!
Thanks Jeanne! Yes, I am not a fan of real fur at all, so I agree with you on that. I agree about the apocalyptic vibe too!
Thanks Mander! Interesting what you're saying about the different parts all reading as hard...intriguing.
Janet, it has been fun to see how everyone reacts! Lots and lots of different perspectives. I would love to see people post pics like this sometimes to get everyone's reactions--good times!
Reading some of the comments does make me wonder if my size alone makes me seem "intimidating" sometimes, depending on what I wear...or if I wore a leather jacket and wore my hair pulled back, if some people would think I'm a poseur, trying to be something that I'm not. Musings.....