Wow, smashing, Sal! You look beautiful, chic, confident, and very you. I'm practically squealing inside with delight, looking at the photos. The dress is such a fantastic silhouette for you. I like the laid-back polish of the blazer as a topper. The layered necklaces, your lovely green shoes, and the pewter bag are perfect complements. Your specs add a dose of cool, dignified glamour, too. Your hair looks fantastic. A bevy of Hollywood stylists could not have done better!
Best of all, you feel happy about your speech--that's no small feat!
Yes, you need more dressy, fun occasions now.