Thanks for all these thoughtful replies. I thought it would be interesting (for me at least!) to see a bunch of the outfits together. It really was a valuable experiment for me because it reminded me that I can do this (in my own way, which sounds a bit like Angie's preferred version -- tonal, yes, absolutely -- but "pops" of contrast in footwear or accessories.)
JAileen, colour is SOOO personal, right/ You'd look great in lilac, but we should never wear colours we don't care for! I think the pastel lilac looks okay on me (sort of) but it doesn't feel right. So...
Brooklyn, thank you! And yes, I think that is right -- I crave the slightly higher contrast, though I did really appreciate the more muted contrast versions if they had the addition of a bright accessory. Maybe for me the bright addition acts as a really interesting texture might for you -- or your jewellery, which isn't necessarily bright (is often muted) but is very distinctive.
Sharon, exactly! The all lilac or pink and lilac just feels too sweet on me. I don't feel like myself. I do feel like myself in 7.8 though. Love your idea of the plaid shirt under the floral sweater! That's a great pattern mix idea -- thank you!
Angie, thank you! I definitely won't be giving up my white out options. I was in white out today, in fact, but a different version without grey!
Cookie, you and me both -- we are not on the minimalism train however much we admire it on others. (And I do admire it on others -- a lot!)
Vicki, that puffer was an Angie NAS pick last year. It is a gorgeous quality coat. I didn't get it at the sale but I got it at the sale price by a very lucky chance.
Olive Green -- thanks! And I gues smy expression is kind of transparent, yeah....
Carla, that's so interesting. I really don't love them (for me) though I think they would look good on others. I sent back the sweater in #1 because I knew I would never wear it. It just felt too femme and ladylike and "pretty" and "sweet" to me.
kkards, #2 makes our preppy genes sing!
Jenni, you are right -- that outfit is high contrast, but on Brooklyn's theory that adjacent colours are tonal, blue and lilac are tonal. Sort of. I think of you as someone who craves contrast, too, and it makes sense, I think it is pretty typical of gamine types generally. Maybe one of our hallmarks. So my little experiment was partly about seeing if I could interpret the tonal look to a gamine style.