Title Nine is a good site, that's where I first found my shock absorber bra.
Angie, what you said does make sense. I might go to the Anthropologie store here in town and see if they have those two items and try them on. Anthro's stuff is really hit or miss with me, depending on cut, brand, etc.
Maya, thanks for the tips on Odille and Sitwell. I really like that top you posted, I bet it looks really nice on you. I agree, Anthro is really expensive, but I also don't see it any other place. I tend to have a very whimsical sort of style, and sometimes it's fun to get something kind of different from BR or J. Crew, etc. I like to shop Anthropologie's sales, they're usually pretty good, but in reality, I've ended up buying very little from them.