I have to say I'm mostly a nay and usually pretty comfortable there. Would I like to move to yay? Depends... I suspect I'll need the same sort of logistical support as Una describes, with just a somewhat different permutation of domestic retainers! Otherwise, the move wouldn't be worth it, so to spear
Funny thing, though, was that the times in my life when I was most in the mood (or hormonal framework) for Yay were the times when it was hardest to actually find time for it. Like when I was sleeping through my first trimester of pregnancy... very literally, unfortunately!