Fair enough it goes back, it was interesting to me that lyn67, and myself, and now Laurie as well, all thought the same thing.
I read the most fabulous children’s book once, by Australian author Emily Rodda, called “Something Special”, about how certain clothes just embody a person. This is many years ago, well before YLF and before much understanding of my personal style. I must have read it in the 90s because I know when Mum died in 1999 I thought of it when choosing how to dress her, I wanted her to be in a “special”. Somehow that combination was more “you” to us than the others.