Honestly this doesn't look that bad to me! It does accentuate your curves though so if you want to avoid that, then return them. But Janet please rest assured you have the kind of backside that men will always check out and women would like to have!!!
Now that we have that sorted...
I do think this jean is meant to be worn lower on the hips. The pockets aren't supposed to hug the hips, they are supposed to fall down the backside like a man's jean. This jean may work better on a rectangle or narrow hipped figure though. It may look really cute on a narrow hipped apple rather than an hourglass, for example.
ETA -- check out the back view here.
http://www.rag-bone.com/Dre__A...../6229.html