Ingunn, another supporter you can count on:). I agree don't be too hard on yourself. I have found my shopping has actually slowed down quite a bit as my wardrobe has become more cohesive and as I have honed my style and am much clearer on how I want to dress. I also am obsession about style and have been known to stress over what to throw on to pickup take away pizza:). Balance is healthy but sometimes it's hard to get there:). Balancing your interests sounds like a wise move...as long as you don't stop having fun with fashion:)

Ingunn - me too! I'm realizing lately that even though I love something and can afford it, nothing else FITS in my closet! If I get something, at least one (or several!) items MUST go, so anything I buy, I have to think first what it will replace, and how it will be better or more loved than what it replaces. I like being here, it makes me much more careful.