Thank you all again so much for your extremely helpful and constructive comments. I feel like I'm seeing things more clearly now, both in the mirror and in photos. And thank you a thousand times over for your compliments too. As someone who's struggled my whole life with crippling low self-esteem, it's hard for me to accept positive comments, but I'm trying! I spent the week unsuccessfully attempting to potty train my younger child and let's just say it was NOT pretty, in any sense, so I really, REALLY appreciate the boost. It's only 8:00 and I'm about to collapse into bed!
I tallied up the votes and numbers 14 and 9 were the clear favourites, with 1, 4, 7 and navy next. 3 and 11 were the least-liked. I'm SO happy to hear all the love for navy! I adore it but I'd convinced myself I was a spring and therefore shouldn't wear it. Glad to hear I was wrong.
fieldmouse, thank you for the tip on white balance. If I get a chance I'll re-take some photos using what I can find that seems to fit the summer palette.
Marley, I actually use an inexpensive drugstore dupe of Nars Orgasm (Milani Baked Blush in Luminoso) but I am interested to try the lipstick. Fascinating that it's actually not the warm tone I thought it was. I can wear black-black mascara fairly successfully.
Alassë and Ruth, I agree that light summer is not very likely--I'm guessing soft is going to turn out to be the best bet. Alassë, I do have most of the colours you mentioned, so I'll try to deploy them in re-take session when I have the chance.
I'll be doing some serious shopping (for a special event dress) on Saturday so this thread will be in the forefront of my mind; I'll be trying on LOTS of colours.