Interesting to hear how everyone's school uniforms & upbringings inform cultural hang ups, even today! For me, I don't mind dresses over soft pants because they remind me of shalwar kameez (which I usually only wear in desi circles), but dresses over jeans hit a personal sore spot because of the cultural connotations of jeans being too 'modern' on women (I wasn't allowed to wear them unless it was with a kurta over the top - my kurtas were short tunics in lightweight fabrics, which of course just looked awkward over bulky jeans). So I do sympathise with 'hard' trousers with dresses.
Whilst I of course had my moments of teenaged self consciousness, I however got fairly used to standing out, because I grew up in a predominantly white Christian area (where I had to be the 'first' to blaze the trail for many things). That included my all-girl's school changing the dress code to allow trousers all year round (including PE) & also creating hijab guidelines (I think they finally felt the need to step in with an officially sanctioned design after I was clearly having too much fun with my own - my mum would dye blue & purple scarves to match my school shirt & jumper respectively, lol!)
@Allora @Jenni NZ
We even had Hang Ten in PK - where, I might add, I have never seen anyone surf! I had a white t-shirt from there with homemade-ooking long fringing along the hemline (the actual hem just cut into strips) & a huge blue-purple flower emblazoned across the chest. I hated it but my parents bought it, so they would make me wear it.