Long story short, I have been battling trying to lose 10 lbs (15 would be my ideal). My exercise regime was not helping except for keeping me toned, but if I do not lose this weight, next year it will be another 5 to 10 as I had started to notice creeping up on the scale and how my clothes fit.

In February, I bought a FitBit Charge HR and am not recommending that you do, but it has helped me monitor my activity level and intensity each day. I mainly cook from scratch because I am on a salt restricted diet, so I just use whatever comes close to a homecooked meal on the food search.

The FitBit calculates my basal metabolism based on my age, weight, height to help me determine how many calories I can take in and how many calories I need to burn to achieve my weightloss goals. I aim at 1/2 pound per week more or less and so far have lost over 7 pounds and I never feel hungry.

I could have probably lost the 7 pounds without the FitBit (I used to use the app called LoseIt), but like to think of it as a motivator. I monitor the intensity at which I workout, because that will help me burn more calories. I sometimes use my HR to determine my intensity, but prefer to see if I can hold a conversation while I workout to see how hard I am working out. If I have to take a breath after a few words, I am working hard, if I don't need to take a deep breath after a sentence I am working at a low intensity. Then if I am breathing hard after each word, I backoff because I am working outside of my cardiac threshold.

Find an exercise that works for you at the right intensity and eat only until you feel full, not what a chart or app suggests. Yes, meds can slow down your metabolism, but you can overcome that with the right exercise intensity. I eat around 1500 to 1600 calories a day, but have been burning around 2200 calories a day with my daily chores, activities, and formal exercise. I am about 5'7-1/2" and down to 143 lbs. My ideal would be 135.

Staying under 1200 calories was not difficult yesterday, but I'm not stupid enough to think that limit is sustainable over the long term. So... I took the advice of my DD and adjusted the calories. You'll laugh at how this ended up, though. Instead of sticking with my actual weight and setting a goal to lose weight, I edited my goal by entering the weight I want to be and indicating that I want to maintain that weight. Voila! I ended up with about 300 more calories per day, which I think is more reasonable and more doable. The funny thing about this is that now I'm being congratulated for losing 10 lbs. I did tell her, though, that I'm not about to measure and/or weigh everything that goes into my mouth. I'm okay with just getting a general idea and holding myself accountable. The unknown here is how much the Gabapentin affects my weight.