I hear you Maya! Like you, I also need petite frames. I find that I do best with frames designed for children/teens - but as you can imagine, the selection is too cutesy/juvenile for my tastes.
What's more, I really adore my optometrist and feel very loyal to him (he doesn't make that much money now that most people order their contacts online), but unfortunately his selection of frames is pitiful and overly ... um... matronly/conservative! Nothing trendy about it!
I do wear my glasses quite a bit, but mostly at home only. I don't like the way my vision is in glasses when I drive, but glasses are perfectly fine (and even preferable) for working at home on the computer. Right now I have my contacts in and the YLF copy looks so tiny it's making my eyes water...
I am wearing the same pair I bought over 4 years ago. Last time I went in, the eye doctor said I didn't need a new prescription just yet. I could invest anyway, but I'm going to hold off. They are similar to the ones you posted on the other thread, in a burgandy frame. I'll take a pic if I get a chance!