Hi Christina F. I think you're absolutely right about men being shoe minimalists... but they can GET AWAY WITH IT.
Men just generally don't need as many shoes. For my hub, it's brown and black dress shoes, 2 pair sneakers (running and casual), slippers, boat shoes, 1 pair flip flops, work boots. So that's like no more than 10 pairs total.
It's hard for females to have so few, especially if you go into an office daily. We need heels, flats, boots, sandals, slippers, sneakers in dress and casual varieties. Rarely could we get away with only brown and black colors the way most men seem to do.
I love shoes, but I admit my collection has been getting out of hand. Plus, I no longer need so many heels and dress shoes, though I hate to get rid of them as good ones are expensive (and you need something for interviews and funerals and weddings). I just wish sometimes there was more of a do-it-all shoe for women or a magic convertible shoe.