Thank you all so much - you are all incredibly helpful with this!
First off, just wanted to point out that obviously I would not be wearing the skirt with a white tee (too much contrast) but I literally walked in the door from work, ripped open the package and tried it on - no time to waste! I realize it doesn't work with this.
Bj111 - yes, I really am this short waisted! And it is something I struggle with, especially since having gained some weight. I work quite hard at disguising it.
I do have a bright yellow blouse I can try with it but will have to be careful if I go into the "gold" category - not a good colour next to my face (makes me look ill).
The zipper is i in the back of the skirt and is completely sewn in (sorry, don't know my sewing terms) as is there is nothing of the zipper showing inside or outside the skirt other than teeth of it. I'm not sure if narrowing the waist band is an option or not but will certainly ask my seamstress. I do think about an inch can be taken off the hem without hurting the birdies.
So to summarize, what I'll be attempting for tailoring includes:
- narrowing of the waistband if possible, otherwise leave as is and either tuck on top or belt over
- slight hemming
- narrowing of the skirt from the hips down
- putting in a kick pleat in the back for comfort in walking
I'd better wear the heck out of this skirt after all of that!