Peri, I hear you! The busty factor is more my issue than shoulders. Crew necks are not my favorite for that same reason, but I will wear them if I love the color/pattern. And they are easier to layer under a blazer or jacket than V-necks, which can sometimes visually fight with lapels or collars. I do like a good boatneck — it can visually widen my shoulders and balance out my hips, if it’s not too bust enhancing. Which usually means a fluid fit, which I’m all about these days anyway since I don’t look as good in fitted tops as I used to.