I just have to comment briefly on the ageism thing re: hair. People really need to get a filter. Is this a by-product of social media? I have no idea. I was taught that if you don't have something nice to say, just don't say anything. I guess that has gone out the window. I must be missing something because I just would not ever make a comment about someone to them that might be perceived in a negative light.

I am so sorry you went through that, along with the other life challenges you have faced the last few years.