Mo, i started my blog back in 2009 and the overall issue you bring up became a hot-button issue right away. Now, personally i am thrilled beyond reason that we have all types of people wearing all types of things. I would evaporate of boredom if we all were the same! I say people should wear, photograph and post on their blogs whatever they durn well please. Full. Stop.
However, it doesn't take long as a blogger to see what drives traffic: new, color, variety, pretty pictures taken with expensive cameras, trends, currently available consumer items, brand names, conventional figure flattery. Invert all the items in the previous list and you have my own style interests (bar the expensive camera - i'll not turn that one down!). I like to repeat items and outfits (with subtle variations) out of a smallish, neutral based wardrobe many of which pieces i've sewn myself. I like to keep my favorite pieces for years and wear them often. I like to play around with different shapes which may or may not reflect traditional ideas of figure flattery or even the body beneath. (see pic)
These types of ideas about style and dressing are more difficult to convey on a blog format, and frankly they require more precise writing and reading. But the largest part of the blog audience wants new, trendy, colorful content and it's hard as a blogger to resist that attraction. I know numbers will jump as soon as i post a look with cheerful color in it, but that's not how i like to dress. Numbers drop when i repeat items, but - ?
Where i personally see the 'trouble' or at least a real frustration is in people who don't have the skills and experience (yet) to make the leap from inspiration to an outfit that works for their real life. That type of content is hard to come by, mostly because it takes time, thought, energy and experience to produce. That's why Angie is such a gem and why we all keep coming back here to YLF - we get the inspiration and the training (i don't know what else to call it! education?) in how to work that inspiration in our own closets and on our own bodies. You're not born knowing how to do this, you learn it like any other skill.
In my own blog, I decided early on to just post what i really wore (heehee, including barefoot in our summers!) and explore and develop my "in real life" style, and do my best to learn how to express this in an interesting way. I don't get huge numbers and don't get gifts of clothes, shoes, etc. but then i figure my readers don't either so there ya go. I do have some very faithful, incredibly thoughtful readers and commenters. They truly blow me away!
So i'd say if you find blogs or posts that speak to your own real life style concerns, reach out and let that person know how much you appreciate it! It takes time and thought to put that type of material together, and most people do it for free. If you want to see more, show those ladies some love!!!
This includes ladies here on YLF, natch and have fun! steph
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