(After reading the comments:)
I realize that I might be in the minority, but it's good to see that Angie and some others too love #1 and #2 on you.
Sorry that you yourself don't like this ensemble, where the proportions look striking on you. But of course, I agree that if you don't like it, there's no point in purchasing it. If the fabric feels stiff and unpleasant, I totally understand that you don't want to wear it.
How about trying another pair of wide trousers, in a different fabric?And please be aware that tucking your top is absolute NOT necessary. Quite the contrary. With long wide trousers, a tucked top might make the upper body look disproportionately small, in particular if you have a short waist.
Untucked slightly fitted tops often look great with wide trousers and make for elegant proportions! (In my humble opinion, this is stunningly illustrated in #1 and #-2.) Though the hemline of an untucked top (if patterned or in a contrast colour) might create a strong, widening, horizontal line across the hips, WIDE LONG trousers--in contrast to narrow or tapered ones--create a long straight or A-line BELOW the hemline of the top, and this line makes the hips look slimmer.