ATLynn, you remarks made me sad that you feel this way: "Being completely honest, I think I would be horrified to see how much work it takes for my image to meet beauty standards."
It's not true. You're a human being and you are beautiful. If some highly paid nitwit thinks you're not up to their 'standard', it's a problem of their shallowness and their choice to buy into our society's stupid ideas. It's nothing whatsoever to do with your beauty as a human being. When i was twenty i got in a car accident and walked around with 150 stitches in my face - i'd much rather be me, then, than the idiot at the bank who said,"You look so awful, i feel like throwing up when i look at you." Yep. someone got an exciting visit from an irate mom later that day! And what you say to a person you just met is just as surface as your face.
"I know they do it to supermodels, too..." Do you really? I've spent a certain amount of time around models (art, fashion, hair, etc.), strippers, drag queens, beauty queens, prostitutes - all professions where you need to keep up a certain 'socially acceptable beauty standard'. It takes a helluva lot of work to look the way your job demands, and NOBODY gets out of it. Because the idea is not for people to look like themselves, it's for them to look like some idea that nobody looks like. Everybody gets foundation, no matter how gorgeous the complexion, Everybody 'needs' false eyelashes for that little oomph no matter how naturally luscious theirs might be.....no belly or thighs are tight and smooth enough to spanx and photoshop.
It is horrifying, that even the most fresh faced beautiful innocence is plastered over and called 'improved'. And if it truly took that type of effort to make women beautiful, i doubt we'd have all these billions of people on the planet
Anyways, i hope that you look at the industry part of this and maybe see that it's not some type of natural absolute standard of 'real objective beauty'. A lot of it, IMHO, is just set up to make people feel bad so they'll buy stuff.
thankfully here on the blogs it's a different - dare i say a bit more real - world. One way or the other ATLynn i hope you have a great evening, steph