First off, you are so pretty!
Second, when I wore specs all the time, I had this same difficulty. It's not a difficulty for everyone, mind you. If a person's style veers to maximal, they won't mind it at all. It also depends on head and face shape and height and overall scale. For myself, I found it tricky -- one or the other (specs OR earrings) already seemed like quite a lot on my petite frame.
But I think you have mastered some tricks that make it work. I didn't have long hair, which meant I couldn't make earrings blend with hair, so my own strategy was to use them to balance some element in the outfit (be it colour or shine or what have you.) If I wear dangling earrings I rarely wear necklaces. Again -- personal preference.