Marley, let's think back, and remember the young male SA who saw this vest in your hand, when you were walking around the store, and screamed, "I love that vest" and we knew that you were on to something, as you USUALLY ARE!!!
I really like it, and I love Anna's links very much, and especially the one which is belted, which I think would work well with your body type and stylings. By stylings, I would play with what is mentioned here, like leggings, heels, skinny bottoms, etc. You DO rock this look, woman! Embrace it.