I don't know how I missed this thread yesterday, but I wish you and your husband speedy recoveries. It must certainly be difficult to go through so much all at one time. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Seems like recoveries never go as fast as we'd like. I'm home recovering from gallbladder surgery I had on Tuesday afternoon, and am frustrated that I don't yet feel like myself. I guess I'm not patient with the 7- to 10-day length of time they said it would take to recover. Anyhoo, I can relate to your situation, and wish you the very best. Take care!