i hope things turn around for you soon.

Thanks again all, your kind thoughts are really keeping me going.
Angie BF is getting extremely bored! He has already been off 3 weeks with kidney stones and now is signed off again for a month before he sees a consultant about possible epilesy! Doctor has advised him to stay active to avoid getting depressed! My friend has just bought a new second hand car so that will keep him busy next week tinkering with it.
I have found a new person for work so that has solved 1 work related problem. I keep reminding myself that things could be a lot worse, some people in Japan have literally lost everything I still have a roof over my head and my family so I'm counting my blessings x

Louise, I think you have an amazing attitude. I know when I'm down it's so hard for me to see past my problems but you seem to have a great perspective.