Chewy - juggling the family finances is hard! But seriously, trimming here and there, and being very focused on your spending is really the best for the long run. All those little savings add up over time. So you may not see the results now, but over time, it makes a huge difference.
What this spending ban is doing for me is making me very-very-very fussy about what I am buying. Those tee's I bought last week are not perfect. So back they go. So the hunt continues but I feel good about not just settling for so-so stuff. My new boots, however, have really expanded my options and make things I already have more wearable. That is actually what my new shopping strategy will be...make sure what I get extends the wearability of what I already have. Fill in the holes. Mulitiply my options. Plus, with me returning the duds I recently purchased, money-wise I'm ahead of the game, despite caving on my shopping bad! For me, it seems to be a mindgame I need to do so I don't feel deprived just because I'm not buying stuff.