Beautiful! The glitter gives it some pizzazz but it isn't overpowering, since the midnight blue sort of shade adds a little 'mystery' - makes me think of an elegant but dark jazz club! And yes, they're very you
Congrats on the anniversary! Your jade earrings wishlist has reminded me of a jade bracelet I was given at my wedding but have not been wearing (for fear of breaking it) - apparently jade is something you're supposed to wear daily instead of keep safe (oops lol) because otherwise a lack of body heat makes it turn white instead of green. When that happens, the Chinese say the jade has 'died' - so hopefully the jade earrings will be (very much alive!) workhorses for you too