Thanks so much. Such collective wisdom as always. It is much appreciated.
Angie, I had no idea how much puppies are like children...but they are:) And Adelpha, you have pinpointed my pet (excuse the pun) annoyance re human parenting... not addressing issues with children as they happen regardless of the age...grrr.
Well we are two days in and I do think Dexter has had some basic training. No accidents inside, she seems to know to go to the toilet outside (phew). Night 1 we popped he, in her bed, on Master 10's bed and she was so happy:) Master 10 couldn't relax so we had to relocate Dex. So Dex slept in her kennel, in the garage. She whined a little, but no barking and after a few mins was quiet. In the morning I found her happily in the kennel.
Night 2, in the kennel again and no trouble in the night. She did do a poop in the garage, which Master 10 managed to not see, step in and then clean up!! We move her kenel to the backyard in the morning. Today is her first day with us all at school and work, but given she has been in the shelter for a little while, she seems ok being alone.
Will be looking for a good puppy school asap.