Sorry for your loss. You've been a good friend - so kind and thoughtful.
I love the necklace on you - it's a great colour and suits you very well. Your neck looks perfectly normal to me...you should see my Costco card picture. My head looks like it's growing right out of my shoulders, and to add insult to injury, the photo has worn away so that my front teeth appear to be missing as well. I keep hoping the clerks will exclaim - madam this can't be you! - but sadly they do not.